ound that wom…e and people pleasers,” she says. It’s a distinction that carries over into the professional world. One study, for example, found that women tend to wait until they have all the qualifications listed to apply for a job, while men will apply even if they only have 60% of them.
“Difficult” here, as you may well recognize, is code for rocking the boat, especially when some folks don’t want the boat to be rocked. “Difficult” means, Gee, is your tone ever off-putting. Why are you so angry all the time? Maybe you could calm down and stop being so emotional. You may not be the right “culture” fit here.