Mfon Omini
Nov 1 · 2 min read

IS THERE ANYTHING LIKE AN IDEAL FAMILY?

We all know that a Family consists of a group of people who are related either by blood or by marriage. It is the primary unit where a child is taught rules, norms, values as well as social skills. The family is obviously the building block of the society. When can we say that a family is IDEAL? How do we define an ideal family?

Ideal simply means ‘PERFECT’. Let me share some scenarios with you.

In a nuclear Family, which consists of the Father, Mother and the children . This kind of family is closely knitted together, they stick to all their religious rights as well as family traditions, its more structured and each member of the family have well defined roles.

In an extended family where we have uncles, aunts, cousins and grand parents etc all living under the same roof. It is usually more fun with all the individuals bringing their characters on to spice up the atmosphere. Imagine all these people in one space lol. Its amazing how everyone member of the family understand their roles and takes responsibility in carrying them out as well.

What is your opinion about blended families? in this case, either one or both of the parent usually have children which are not genetically related that they got from previous relationships. With all the pros and cons involved especially visitation rights, finances and adoption in some cases. Do you think it can still be listed as an ideal family?

Meanwhile, some families experience separation due to several reasons like Migration, ill health, an overseas job offer, divorce, death etc. Due to these kind of circumstances which may be beyond ones control, most of the parent become single for either a temporary or a permanent period. Do those family members still have an opportunity to be called an ideal family?

lastly, does having children in a home make it a Family?if yes, what about those couples without children, do they have a chance to be called an ideal family?

Surveys have proven that there is no such word as an ideal family. We live In an imperfect world with imperfect people, we can only strive towards perfection by becoming the best version of ourselves thereby influencing our families moment by moment.

In conclusion, if there was ever anything called an ideal family, the world would have turned out ideal as well.

what is your opinion? Please share with me.

Hello there,I am Mfon. I am a wife,mother and a Biochemist who is passionate about education and people with special needs. I love to keep everything REAL.

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