I know you aren’t looking for advice, but jeez, have you considered trying to find some better friends? There are literally billions of people out there who never have the urge to use the prefix “cis” on anything, who don’t think that not being “privileged” should give you special privileges, who instead of wasting our days obsessing over properly gendered intersectional horseshit, like to talk about things like movies and food and technology and sports. People who, if you choose to share the difficulties you are having, will express sympathy even if they don’t understand the specifics of your problem, and if you choose not to share your difficulties, will respect your privacy, and not try to mock you for apparently belonging to the oppressing gender, language, creed, and race.

We call ourselves “normal”, and we’d be happy to have you join us.