Look, if you are going around assuming that everyone who refuses to vote for a corrupt, dishonest, incompetent, unpleasant, influence-peddling, rape-apologizing politician — even if she is a woman — is necessarily a misogynist, you are going to spend a lot of time unhappy.
Look at the first black president. Even if you didn’t like him or his policies, you had to admit he was intelligent, tolerably honest, and charismatic. People could vote for him in good conscience.
Find a woman like that to run. There are millions of them.