As someone who replied to this comment before said, this was the comment I was hoping to find. Full disclosure: my last serious BF was pretty much your spirit animal — Mr. Burning-Man-Let’s-Try-An-Open-Relationship-Monogomy-Is-Unnatural Guy. This story is lovely in many ways and you are a compelling writer, but it seemed really self-indulgent/narcissistic? At then end, when you wanted to punch Cam? I was really wanting to punch you.