
ALGORITHM OF CARING 3.0!!!
Maturity is not a thing of age but a thing of mental progressiveness that affects our general outlook of life, behavior and response to different occurrences in our day in and day out life. The question then is are you matured?
Hello there, welcome to today’s edition abi na episode of #heartmatters. Happy new month by the way. We hope this month makes you a better person and bring all your heart desires. Today we continue on our topic: Caring… Hope you are not tired yet? And hope you’ve been learning and practicing something new? Alright today we will talk about attribute M-R. Let’s get into it.
• Maturity:
Maturity often means taking the high road, trying to understand someone else’s perspective (especially when it’s different from your own) and being able to see into the future. It is essential to know that maturity is not a thing of age, there are elderly people that are still very childish in behavior.
Maturity is understanding that not everybody will agree with you or understand your view and there are times that your right might not be right for the situation you and your spouse or loved ones are going through. Shey you get?
• Nurturing:
When we nurture we take care of someone’s needs and desires, often times even more than our own. This implies that we offer attention and compassion to things that feed the heart and soul. This is an important ingredient needed in both romantic and non-romantic ones. What are you nurturing?
• Openness:
This is similar to honesty and says that we keep ourselves aware and willing to take in new ideas and point of views. This enables us to listen more and become more open minded to our loved ones’ views and ideas. How open are you?
• Present:
Being present keeps us focused in the know, allowing us to accomplish what is immediately important and necessary. Being present helps us solve/resolve what is right in front of us. Being present is essential because most times when we are in a discussion and we are often lost and do not get the full scope of the conversation and it gives out a signal that we are not interested and the person talking is not important and I know that we won’t like that especially if it is someone we hold very dear to our hearts.
So my guy, my lady be present!
• Quality:
This outlines the ability to distinguish that high ideal or standard may be far more important than Quantity, meaning it is better to love one person that is intelligent, loving, caring and has all those attributes than to have 200 oloribobo side chicks.
And truth be told, when you have two people with like minds the sky is just the beginning and it ultimately gives rise to a better life for both parties. Uncle and Aunty boya we shuu kuku just be chasing quality nígbà náà.
• Reasonable:
Being reasonable means we are able to take things into consideration and weigh ideas, beliefs and perspectives thoughtfully and without prejudice. Being reasonable is one attribute that we ought to have in every of our relationships it is our guide to making the right decisions without any form of Bias. You sef don dey reason am abi? E dey needed.
Naso we go end today episode till next week, make una dey shine dey go. Make una enjoy una weekend ooh. We for HEART MATTERS dey hala una well well… Don’t forget the blessing is with the doers and not the hearer. So biko make we dey practice, las las we need am.
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