Kerry, I think that there is room for balance here. People need to feel their pain and to be helped through it, even if that is just with a listening ear. At the same time we need to learn to move on and trust otherwise we betray our faith.
Paul, I agree. We will focus on the problem until something else catches our attention and then most will pretend this never happened. The only thing is that these catastrophes are becoming far more common. Hopefully, we will reach a point where joined-up thinking comes into effect before total meltdown. I have my doubts.