The truth about “letting go” of your manifestations

I think I’ve finally cracked the code on what it means to “let go” of your desires to manifest them quicker.

Stephanie Theresa
3 min readMar 22, 2023
What you seek is seeking you!
It’s all about finding the patterns of the universe.

I’ve been studying and following manifestation experts for about 5 years now. If you’re anything like me, you’ve done everything possible to manifest your deepest desires. But there was always one aspect of the manifestation process that I didn’t understand: letting go. It stumped me. But once I found out how to truly let go of what I wanted, my manifestations appeared. Yes, really.

Patterns in my manifestation process

I never understood how to let go of something that I’ve always wanted or dreamed of having. All the experts tell us to literally stop thinking about or wanting our desire in order to allow it to appear in our lives. But what does that even mean? How is that possible?

Letting your manifestation go doesn’t mean that you don’t want it; it means that you know you’ll be okay without it. You signal to the universe that you know you’ll be fine even if you never get that thing. Life will go on, and so will you.

Poem by Brianna Wiest
Accept yourself and your life as they are now without the thing you’re manifesting.

As soon as I started incorporating (and accepting) this thought process into my manifestation process, my manifestations appeared quicker. Here are some examples of where this magic happened:

Example 1: Apartment life vs. home ownership

When we moved back to Michigan, we had a goal of living in our apartment for two years, then we’ll buy a house. We quickly realized that the housing market wasn’t going to follow our plan, and we couldn’t afford the move so soon.

This was a huge blow to my ego. As a 30-something, professional girlie, I should be a homeowner by now. Or so I thought.

Once my partner and I decided we’ll stay in our apartment as long as we need to in order to be able to buy our dream home, more ideas started springing up. Ideas about business ventures, vacations, and more that would’ve been impossible to do at the same time as buying a house.

We showed the universe that we’re okay with staying put and changing our plan, and the universe delivered on other desires we’ve been manifesting. (We were able to take a spontaneous trip to NYC, have more date nights, and make weekend trips the norm.)

Girl swimming in the sea with fish.
I accepted my plan wouldn’t happen, and the universe rewarded me!

Example 2: Continuing my relationship vs. being single

I gave up control once I accepted that I’ll be okay whether or not my relationship survives. I acknowledged the fact that the family I had imagined in my head may not happen. That the American dream I’d been striving for may not be in my future. Within hours of letting go of these desires, I was able to think clearly (with no anxiety) about my relationship. Communication with my partner improved drastically, and we grew closer as a couple.

I let go of the dream, letting the universe know that I’ll be okay without it. The universe responded, and gave us the opportunity to strengthen our relationship.

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If it doesn’t come, that means the universe has something better in mind.

Letting go of your manifestation

Letting go doesn’t mean you don’t want the thing you are manifesting. It means that you know you are worthy of it. That if it doesn’t come, the universe must have something bigger and greater in mind for you.

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Stephanie Theresa
Stephanie Theresa

Written by Stephanie Theresa

Mindset, Inner peace, Manifestation, Abundance, Slow Living, Inner Child