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Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her.
Don’t always be a perfect man to impress your woman is meaningless to her. Do this instead.
A man’s faithful track record means nothing to the feminine. A man could be perfect for ten years, but if he’s an asshole for 30 seconds his woman acts like he’s always been one. The feminine responds to the moment of energy, forgetting her man’s history of past behavior. A man’s past behavior is irrelevant to his woman’s feeling in the moment. But men on the other hand, base much on another man’s history of behavior, so they think their own track record should count for something. But to a woman, it doesn’t.
It's been a very tough and late day at work. You finally come home, and your woman is upset. You forgot that you were supposed to have dinner with another couple that night, and the time has passed. Your woman is furious.
"I'm sorry I'm late, but this was an unusual day," you say. "I haven't worked late for months, but I had to today. You probably can't even remember the last time I forgot a date together we had planned. I hardly ever forget those kind of things."
"Well, you did today. And that's what counts."
There is no use trying to mitigate her anger by referring to your great track record. To the feminine, history is irrelevant. What counts is the feeling in the moment. If you let…
