Easy for you to say, white boy. Dominique Matti’s emotions are not the problem — the fucking oppression is the problem.
You spend a massive amount of your time policing oppressed people’s reactions to try to make them less disturbing to you, tying yourself in knots to maintain your singleminded refusal to see racism and sexism or believe anyone giving evidence to the contrary. You should consider spending a tenth of that time fighting the actual oppression instead of attacking the people who experience it and write about it.
Actually, let me rephrase my original statement. You are the problem.