Mister Alighieri
Sep 7, 2018 · 2 min read

Men, if you are thinking about having kids, take the examples in this article as how it WILL be. Don’t let your mind convince you it will be different.

I wish more men understood this going in. Your once wild sex life, will be completely gone. It may dribble back just in time for kid 2, but after that it is a long dry road.

The woman is biologically driven to just think about hers and the child’s well being. You only play a role in that — as provider. You are a tool, to get the job done. The woman is also programmed to lose sexual attraction for you after child birth, again a survival trait and also laying the ground work for finding a different father and subsequent divorce in the future.

Yep once you have served your reproductive purpose, you are to provide resources and beyond that you are an annoyance. As a father you will be looked at with suspicion from your wife because you don’t do things the way she does. You will be looked at with suspicion by other mothers when you take your kids out as well. Basically fathers are idiots and unnecessary, until teenage years come along and mothers gentle reproaches need backed by a fathers stern admonishment.

This sounds harsh but its true.

A harsh truth is better than a comforting lie.

Whatever power you think you had in the relationship drains away for most men, bit by bit day by day, unless you are prepared for this

Indeed. Watch any married man who has kids and see how little power they have over their lives. The reason men zone out to sports and video games is that it’s the only place (in their mind) that they are still a masculine force.

And don’t believe the call to “do more around the house” the sex never materializes.

LOL. Yeah, that’s a huge lie. Your wife will still claim to be just as tired if you do all the chores.

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/doing-household-chores-may-mean-less-sex-for-married-men/

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