Mister Alighieri
Aug 28, 2017 · 1 min read

Manners are treating other people with respect. And women are not your toys. Tinder isn’t the place you come to speak to women like they are objects in a vending machine waiting to satiate you. Tinder isn’t the place you come to select the next hole you put your penis in from countless options all there for no reason other than to sexually please.

Tindr is a hookup/dating app. It’s purpose is to put people together for whatever they are looking for. You might be searching for someone for the next 30 years, someone else might be looking for the next 30 minutes. You don’t get to dictate why those people use the app. There are apps specifically for getting into a relationship (PoF, E-harmony, OKCupid), you might want to keep to those.

How people treat you is a great way to sort out who you want to be with. If a guy treats you like an object and you aren’t into that, you can ignore that person. Tindr is known for fast hookups. That will mean, men and women often treat each other as objects. And for a hookup, that’s probably fine. And another point to consider, manners are subjective and not nearly universally taught.

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