I’m with you brother. First I check in to see if anything is required urgently, gets that concern off my mind, then I take a moment for me e.g. medium articles I wanted to read sneak a couple in and then when I hit the shower my mind isn’t in work, duty etc it’s free and I can relax and enjoy the morning routine.
Also I am starting to include a workout routine into my morning too, so it’s phone stuff, workout and then shower. I love it; best mornings ever!