You’ve enlightenned me to why I hate this courrant of music. I am most interested in how young people 20 years my junior are in another generation. One emprisonned in super meta jail controlled by marketers of femininity and masculinity as unattainable opposite extremes. This creates a vast difference in life experience across binary heteronormative genders. What I see is that the move away from civic life, to one predominently centered around the celebration of American whiteness through consumerism as an expression of identity. On the other hand, the performance of femininity is a formative super high skill endeavor. I do not see women as helpless with modernity in the real world as men are. The self-awareness gap is immense though. Sure, hatred of women is pervasive but it is the abject fear of women that is most dangerous. Because, in real life, we are so different than the accessory women displayed in all media messages aimed at men. Yet we women have a PhD in men’s priorities and feelings via the representation of men as full human beings in all media. I find the knowledge of this to be useful and it helps me in a business that is 80–90% male. And it has also helped me choose my spouse wisely. Thanks for this excellent post!