You are just an alcoholic. “Most of your free time in bars” doesn’t even qualify as “drinking”, it means you have a major ass alcoholism problem. I’m glad you’ve turned your life around, but you learned the wrong lesson and now you’re preaching it to others. Millions of people drink once a week and have NO problems whatsoever. You could be one of them easily if you knew how to restrain yourself. And you would be really surprised to learn how many successful people drink occasionally, while maintaining normal weight and buying condos.