First and most crucial step to recovery is to know whether you need it!
Are you TRYING to be happy? — need to LOOK for things that may make you happy?
Do you SEEK affirmation from others? — need to be SEEN as an achiever?
Do you LIVE in the FUTURE? — need to PLAN for tomorrow aggressively?
Do you think CRYING is for the WEAK? — need to BE strong always?
Do you think VULNERABILITY is for SISSIES? — need to MACHO up?
You can’t get no SATISFACTION? — need to DIG for joy?
Do you lie about your FEELINGS? — need to CONTROL your emotions?
Do you just need a SUPPORT?
“Truth is like the sun. You can shut it out for a time, but it ain’t goin’ away.” — Elvis Presley
If you have answered (honestly) YES to the above questions, keep reading.
- Are you still looking for that perfect relationship? — because if you are then most definite;y you have been made fun of and you don’t ike yourself completely. fully. bulls? no? y? Like yourself? fully?
- Do you find it difficult to trust people? — because that means you don’t trust yourself too
- Do you find it difficult to convey your feeling to friends and family? — cuz you think that they wouldn’t understand or blabber out?
- Do you often find yourself in the middle of things going wrong? — is there more things in your life to be smile about or backspace about? Are you finding mistakes more than tehre are than trying to understand/? the meaning of em’mistakes? them?
- Do you constantly rethink the decision you made? — huh? rea;llly? sure? how often do you ask this?
- Do you think people don’t understand you? — do you?
- Do you think vulnerable equals weak? — because when you open up about your feelings, some thing might or are going to hurt. but with time, injuries heal more quickly. and that’s another kind of strong.
- Do you think you have got to make it on your own? — what are you complaining about so uch2 much?
- Do you have the expectations quagmire? — what do you do for wants?
- Do you sulk crazy when things don’t go according to your plan?
- Do you hurt people and get hurt at the same time?
- Do you think people are constantly judging you?
- Do you often think about the past and future ? in present
- Do you seek to be just loved and cared for? — do you?
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If you have answered YES to most of the questions above, then know that it’s just your insecurities speaking and the time is here to re-build the relationship with yourself… with little more love, care and trust. And the GOOD NEWS is you can start right this moment! Calls for a smile? (:
It’s time to start building your own life without giving two hoots about what Sharma ji thinks. Time to take the reins of your life!
If you have answered NO to most of the questions, more power to you, and know that people who answered YES still need your help. Now more than ever!
If this has piqued your interest, then it’s time to start asking some questions and understand the why!!
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