And I wanted to keep my integrity as well — I published two articles in May, early on and then for the rest of the month nothing. It’s not that I was writing and not publishing. It’s that I completely stopped writing on this account. I did write for my other assignments, but to keep up with my previous practice…

But you were too shy to ask someone with a vagina — I was a late bloomer and I didn’t get my period until the last year of primary school. I didn’t have period envy because honestly, the idea of bleeding freaked me out and I had zero intention in having it sooner than I had to, but because the mention of…

The dilemma of low sex drive during unprecedented and sexless times — I’m not going to lie to you, the lockdown has messed up quite a few things. On a macro level, it turned the whole world upside down, made us reinvent ways of living, ways of working, ways of connecting with others. …

Not only the source but also the feeling matters — If diamonds are a girl’s best friends, then I don’t know where to put orgasms. The bff label is too cliché, the life-long companion sounds stale, the soulmate is way too romantic for something that can be so animalistic and raw. For sure, without being too anal about labels, me…

Can you and should you educate someone on basic sexuality? — My friend called me yesterday and I heard she was quite upset. She downplayed it — as usual, and asked me if I was fine, but I heard in the tone of her voice that she can’t wait for me to ask how she was. She told me that she…

And what to do to get it back — One of the greatest perks of sex positivity is that we talk about the female orgasm and pleasure more and more. Thankfully, it is getting more attention, we are educating ourselves about the female anatomy and we are educating others as well. Women are talking more openly about their bodies…

And a few really good ones — Threesomes have been a common fantasy for men and women; in fairness it’s one of the most prevalent sexual fantasies out there. And as much as they are great to imagine — the double pleasure and double challenge — it is getting easier to attain it too. You don’t have…

Understanding the different layers of human connection to have better relationships — When I first met him, my heart was sighing “oh, oh” minutes before he even noticed me. I was sitting in a bar and I saw him with his friends in the periphery of my eye and I couldn’t let go until he finally looked at me — and smiled. …

5 tips to make use of your single days for more effective dating later — For some, it is sometimes difficult to be single, but it’s even more challenging to be single during tough times. When you are left to your own devices, without anyone to support you, to hold you, to accept you for who you are. These times we are living now are…