everyone have their lists, they might not write it down, but they are there.
But I find that people are lying to themselves when those lists have no physical qualities. You have a great list, but you want those qualities in people you are attracted to. There must be a lot of guys with those qualities that you just do not find attractive.
Men are usually more honest on this and the bar is set quite lower (and here is some data on that https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ ).