Pondering the “d-word”It’s been a while since I have heard it, but “divisive” recently re-appeared in my world. It’s something to ponder: that word could be used…Mar 31, 2023Mar 31, 2023
Racial Equity Step 1: Do LessThis is an update to a 2020 post on the Philanthropy New Yorks’ Insights blog.Dec 7, 2022Dec 7, 2022
What I Know About PerfectionismIn this post, I will try to write about whiteness and perfectionism. And in doing so, attempt to embrace the lack of clarity and precision…Nov 19, 2022Nov 19, 2022
When a Gondola Couldn’t Save a MarriageLast night, in an attempt to enjoy all that is right with the world, I sat back to watch what was sure to be the sweetest Love Is Blind**…Nov 3, 2022Nov 3, 2022
On Professionalism: “These words are my screams.”“I wanted to scream. I wanted to tell both the judge and the opposing counsel that they upheld systems of racial hierarchy. I did not…Oct 25, 20221Oct 25, 20221
White Folks, We Do Know What to DoFor the past few years, fall has marked the start of me leading another cohort of white leaders on a 7-month journey of dismantling…Oct 21, 2022Oct 21, 2022
Still starting with “tell me about yourself?”Interviews are awkward. The stakes are high, everyone’s nervous. They do not lend themselves well to pleasant chitchat.Oct 15, 2022Oct 15, 2022
Letting Go of GoodThis was originally posted, in a slightly different form, on the evaluation blog AEA365.org.Oct 12, 2022Oct 12, 2022
An Allegory about Pay DataEarlier this year, the EEOC published a 370-page report assessing its efforts to collect mandatory pay data from all US employers in 2017…Oct 11, 2022Oct 11, 2022
Weaving Time in a Tapestry (Time Series #2)“Call me anytime, sweetheart,” my dad (90) always says, and he means it. When I protest and say that I don’t want to wake him up late at…Oct 7, 2022Oct 7, 2022