Pity of unconscious uselessness

Misunderstanding the fundamental error

This post may sound more like a rant than nothing else; however, I would not call these posts as “rants” because what I do is to list up the facts without having an emotional outburst that either criticizes or hurts other people’s feelings in my own taste.

Some people seem to not understand the difference between being helpful and not being helpful. Perhaps because they do not understand what I am looking for, or what kind of person I am; therefore, they often approach me assuming “fun” or “funny” is acceptable even they are not being helpful. Do I think either fun or funny can be substituted in place of helpfulness? I do not understand that logic, unfortunately. Some people also think “feelings” can be a substitute for anything; for instance, person A “tried hard enough” so person B is satisfied of the person A’s effort of trying and failing in the end. As for this example, I, surprisingly, do understand the difference between people who do not help whatsoever and people who “try” to help but were not capable. It is always nice to have someone who relentlessly try with good will rather than having no one like that and inevitably become a soloist. However, the problem here is that at the very end of the day, the issue that I was having is not solved. Depending on the situation, the issue might have been solved by myself, or the issue was not solved. Worst case scenario, the issue creates more issues perplexing more and more issues, which soon becomes a giant body of issue. At this point, “fun” would be considered “not fun” and “funny” would be considered “not funny;” furthermore, “feelings” decomposes into thin air with H2O and O2. There is no such thing as “at least I have tried” or “I prayed for it but…” or anything feeling related. Long story short, action = action, no action = no action, accomplishment = accomplishment, “I tried” or anything similar to that = no accomplishment.

This is exactly why when I encounter a problem, I believe and rely on only myself to fix the problem. Relying on others only creates possible problems, followed by blaming, envy, anger, and perhaps all of the 7 deadly sins. I also only surround myself with capable, efficient, competent folks who I can rely on their knowledge of expertise and utilitize tools around them to both help themselves and me. I do not need any fools that are superficial and useless, only seeing things visible to their naked eye (non-intuitive, non-innovative, non-creative), spontaneously approach their life according their non-existent plans, and emotionally idiotic.

Perhaps the last sentence was more of an emotional than logical, which creates my first rant.