Ah, I see you’ve bought the conservative line: the dems lost because they called stupid people stupid, and they called intolerant people intolerant, and they had the temerity to point out that white people have long enjoyed privilege vis a vis other races. Complete rubbish; they lost because they underestimate how much people truly hated Hillary Clinton. Period.
Firstly, the dems got more votes. They lost votes in key areas based on an arcane electoral college that doesn’t reflect the population. Secondly, they lost a lot of seats due to gerrymandering, plain and simple.
In fact, the dems would win MORE if they were more forceful in calling spades spades. The line that you’re buying is conservative propaganda. Don’t fall for it.