Thanks for sharing these personal thoughts … I read Andy’s article throughly and started to read the comments too, after reading yours, I had to pause and respond … Thanks again for sharing and have a wonderful and happy new year ..2016 and more. I would like to share a quote I heard that changed me a lot and it goes as “ … Become who you are … by learning who you are..” Pindar, greek philosopher (518 BC — 438 BC)