Emma, thanks for the thoughtful article. It was good to see you went beyond the obvious causes and touched on some deeply significant factors. I’ve spent years thinking about this and studying it with some of the best minds in human relationships and sexuality. While for me, this has been a personal quest rather than for the purpose of publishing, as a mindful and emotionally available male, I may be able to add to your already insightful conclusions. We could pool our findings and perhaps fill in some more answers if your interested. https://www.facebook.com/MichaelTanngo