Do This And You’ll Be Welcome Anywhere

Like me mostly people face with the problem of how to have a good relationship with others? The main issue is that they think in most cases about themselves. I have a personal experience that when I went out from my home for study and stayed in a room alone, I missed many things as interacting with friends, family members, relatives etc.
During this period I did not create new relations.I wanted to make new friends but did not know how to win friends? A few days ago I joined Amal Academy where I got the opportunity to explore my self. I read a book of Dale-Carnegie “How to Win Friends and Influence People” and I really inspired from this book. After reading the book I implement the roles and started practice with friends, family and other persons and I surprised to see the tremendous results. I just focus on
“Become Genuinely Interested in other people”

I made a list of 15 people and talked to them on text messages, calls and through face to face meting. I asked questions as: how are you, what are you working on these days, how is your family, what did you do this past weekend, any plans for next weekend, what are your goals for this year, how is the year going so far, what challenges are you facing these days, what are you planning to do after graduation, etc.
After interacting with these persons , I conclude that if we really want to build good relation with others, we must develop the ability to become genuinely interested in them. It is normal behavior that we all are interested in ourselves first, and other people second. However, if you want to build trust and rapport with others, you must start making them the focus of your conversation.
When you stop to think for a moment, and when you make an earnest attempt to get to know others, it can lead to a fascinating conversation. Try above mentioned plus some of your own questions the next time you are with a stranger, and watch how easy it is to become genuinely interested in them. These questions can open up a whole world of learning fascinating information about the people you meet.
Dale Carnegie once said that, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”
