It should occur to you first.

Earlier it happens better for you , rather than things getting forced on you by some external trigger. Having occurred, you should put up your journey , devising your own rituals , routines and processes . While on a journey not to lose sight is paramount in attaining the end result . Since it is real easy to get misled taking means-of-goal for the end-goal-in-itself.

And like metamorphosis , one should be willing to let pass away some part of you to become new you . Marching onward , believing like caterpillar you should be prepared to sustain the journey , failing; crying, moving forward relentlessly to unearth the butterfly in you .