Bye-Bye, My.

[This is from 2010. I still harbor strong feelings-EH]

In the immortal words of Armand Van Helden:

My my my (my my my)
 Woh (woh)
 How did we ever get this way?
 Where’s it gonna go?

When designing an interface in 2010, would you copy Windows 95? Would you copy Yahoo!’s copy of Windows 95?

Many people are still doing just that, and we want them to stop.

How did we ever get this way?

In the beginning, there was My Computer, and then there was My Yahoo! Then, like mushrooms after a rain, a million mindless imitators emerged.

These sites didn’t just use My in the brand like My Yahoo! or MySpace. My came to preface any interface element inviting personalization.

In their excellent Design Pattern Library, the Yahoo! Developer Network explains the heart of the problem their parent created. Instead of reinforcing a sense of ownership and agency, this unnatural locution feels presumptuous and alienating.

It is as if the user has printed out labels and stuck them to various objects: My Lunch, My Desk, My Red Stapler. Except the user hasn’t done this; you (the site) did it for them.

This is lazy design and branding. It’s bad style. And it sucks. So, let’s unsuck it!

Where’s it gonna go? Away.

The site or app speaks in the first person plural “we”. (In general, “I” takes you to that creepy HAL 9000 place. It’s the uncanny pronoun. Avoid.) The interface addresses the reader as “you”, or by name.

Things belonging to the people who run the site, such as a privacy policy, are “ours”. Things belonging to the user, such as a profile, are “yours”. Anything that is just a part of the overall experience, doesn’t necessarily need a possessive pronoun at all.

That’s all you need to know. Go forth and suck no more.

Additional persuasion to help you break the habit

Writing interface language is like writing dialog for a play. You want to make it clear who is speaking at all times. Being clear, as well as appropriately conversational, goes a long way towards making the whole experience engaging and successful.

Mint.com receives a lot of praise for their design. Many of those good interface design decisions are language decisions.

It’s not Mamet, but this construction adds humanity and a sense of service.

Sometimes you need to give the user their lines for their part of the interaction. Typically this takes the form of a button or otherwise selectable statement.

Here’s a swell example of some complexity from YouTube:

So far, so good. But what about the persistent labels for objects you want your users to own? We can torture the metaphor a little more and call them the props. Well, if we are talking to you, then these things are yours.

So natural! So friendly! So easy to maintain a helpful consistency.

It’s perfectly fine to use no pronoun at all. Plenty of websites get by just fine with an “Account” tab. Even Microsoft has relabeled the traditional My Computer icon to Computer with the introduction of Vista.

But if you don’t follow this guideline, if you succumb to the peculiar temptation of my, you just set yourself up for totally unnecessary inconsistency.

And, should you decide to brand a whole section of your site with “My”, you aren’t really branding the experience at all. You are inviting your users to draw an analogy with something another company did over a decade ago. It’s a missed opportunity, and that sucks.

Written by Erika Hall on June 8, 2010