WOOP
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Podcast: Hidden Brain, ep 30: Woop
Summary: Positive thinking and indulging in fantasies about the future feels good. However, these feelings may induce a false sense of accomplishment and actually derail our efforts into achieving them. A Professor of Psychology at New York University, Gabriele Oettingen shares her approach to overcoming life challenges with her concept of “WOOP”.
The more positively one imagines their future to be, the less likely they are going to do the hard work required to get there.
Positive fantasies come from a need within us. They are not necessarily bad as they are the beginning of action. They give direction but not energy or impetus to act. Therefore, people relax and feel that they are already there.
This is because the pleasure (dopamine hit) you get from daydreaming that goal is so similar to the feeling of actually completing the goal, so you feel satiated with daydreaming alone without having to do the actual work.
The solution is to contrast positive thinking or fantasies with obstacles to make the day dream a reality.
Using the acronym WOOP created by Oettingen, we can avoid the pitfalls of spending too much time on thinking positively with the tools of mental contrasting.
The 4 steps of WOOP (Wish-Outcome-Obstacle-Plan):
Wish: What is your most important wish or concern? Pick a wish that feels challenging but that you can reasonably fulfill within the next four weeks.
Outcome: If your wish is fulfilled, where would that leave you? What would be the best, most positive outcome? How would fulfilling your wish make you feel?
Identify your best outcome and take a moment to imagine it as fully as you can.
Obstacle: What is it within you that holds you back from fulfilling your wish? It might be an emotion, an irrational belief, or a bad habit. Think more deeply — what is it really?
Identify your main inner obstacle and take a moment to imagine it fully.
Plan: What can you do to overcome your obstacle? Identify one action you can take or one thought you can think to overcome your obstacle.
Make the following plan for yourself:
“If… (obstacle), then I will … (action or thought).”
Example: If I am afraid of getting rejected in an interview, I will recall my past work achievements to assure myself.
Other resources:
Oettingen’s book: Rethinking Positive Thinking
WOOP app: http://woopmylife.org/
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