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How My First Boyfriend, a Murder Suspect, Shaped My Anxious Attachment

At 17, my first boyfriend was the main suspect in a satanic ritual killing, creating severe anxious attachment that’s taken 22 years to…

Dec 7, 2024

How My First Boyfriend, a Murder Suspect, Shaped My Anxious Attachment

Dec 7, 2024

What to Do When the Avoidant Pulls Away

When They Pull Back, You Pull Back

1d ago

What to Do When the Avoidant Pulls Away

1d ago

A Narcissistic Avoidant’s Desperate Attempt to Regain Control

And What Happens When You Don’t Respond The Way They Want You To (and the psychology behind it all)

3d ago

A Narcissistic Avoidant’s Desperate Attempt to Regain Control

3d ago

Why The Avoidant Won’t Chase You

Why your efforts to get an avoidant to chase you are failing — it’s not about you!

6d ago

Why The Avoidant Won’t Chase You

6d ago

When Sex Gets Complicated: Exploring Avoidants in the Bedroom

Sex with Avoidants

Jan 7

When Sex Gets Complicated: Exploring Avoidants in the Bedroom

Jan 7

Are Avoidants Purposefully Manipulative — Or is it You?

What you can do when avoidant behavior feels manipulative

Jan 5

Are Avoidants Purposefully Manipulative — Or is it You?

Jan 5

The Art of Narc(issism)

Unpacking the psychology of each phase of meeting and getting to know a narcissist

Dec 20, 2024

The Art of Narc(issism)

Dec 20, 2024

When Toxicity Looks Like Love — The Scary Side of Emotional Manipulation & How Deep it Goes

How Manipulation Can Masquerade as Romance and Why Your Gut Knows Better Than Your Heart — Big Red Flags to Watch For!

Dec 16, 2024

When Toxicity Looks Like Love — The Scary Side of Emotional Manipulation & How Deep it Goes

Dec 16, 2024

What a Narcissist Thinks When You Stay After the Discard

When You Stay, They Win: The Twisted Logic Behind a Narcissist’s Discard

Dec 14, 2024

What a Narcissist Thinks When You Stay After the Discard

Dec 14, 2024

Avoidant Bread Crumbing & The Power of Your Silence After the Discard

Why going silent when your avoidant partner discards you is the most powerful thing you can do

Dec 13, 2024

Avoidant Bread Crumbing & The Power of Your Silence After the Discard

Dec 13, 2024

My Avoidant Ex

My Avoidant Ex

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I'm Molly, therapist & previously anxious after my first boyfriend was a main murder suspect. I've studied attachment theory & narcissism & write about them.

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