FaCe ThE FeAR!!

Myda Sikander
Nov 1 · 3 min read

GoInG tO JuST StaRt:

Feel The FEar

Going to Just start is something , to face your fear rather than fake yourself .. Many people including me, require a lot of courage to take the very first step to reach the desired goal.. Reaching towards your goal or aim is always full of fears. The favourite place of fear to live is, inside us; e.g lack of confidence, fear of rejection, negative feedback and so on and on… An afraid person fails in each and every step of his life, every struggle turns into failure and every war is a defeat for such a person. But now I’m feeling very excited to overcome my fears to become a better version of myself … :)

Face The Fear

What is my fear i am going to face:

I have met a lot of people in my life who say ,”I can perfectly do this or i am such a great person and blah blah!…: / “ But i feel afraid to say admiring words about me or even afraid of saying what abilities or skills I have.. may be I have a fear that the other person will start taking test of me :D and how can I face them if I fail :’( Failure is the worst word in my dictionary… perhaps, I have a fear to face people.

Now i don’t want to run.. :(

Now Just Start It:

So now, how i am going to face this fear is, by showing others what I can do without thinking what othes can do.. and So, recently I have made a blog but i didn’t share those contents to my friends and relatives groups. So from now on , I am going to share that without any hesitation or any fear and going to get feedback (positive or negative) from them :)

STEPS:

1: The very first step is to share my contents to them

2: Secondly going to ask for feedback and improve it

3: Thirdly not going to water this fear again :D

It might be a small step to ovecome this fear but i’ll take it. In this respect, My first step is to share my first travelling blog to relatives who even don’t know that i can make a blog. In past, I was just working on it without thinking to share it to anyone.. It was just for my ownself, for my own satisfaction and that’s why i can’t get so many viewers on my blog : / so now i’m ready to face whatever they’ll say… and would try to improve my blogging as its just a start!!!

My blog :)

https://travelwithhayat.blogspot.com/

Challenges I have to face:

Everyone in this world tries to devalue others by their words or actions and I always keep myself away from such people but now is the time to face everyone.

How to Face your Fear (Lesson learned from this experience)

If you do something without thinking a lot about the outcome, you can overcome your fear..If you are right then don’t be afraid of the result or reaction of others just start doing the right thing. So, I am quite sure to take steps to control and to fail my other fears in future too :)

Its going to be a good, good future :)

Regards:

Myda Sikander

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