Show kindness and you’ll be welcome anywhere
This Book ‘’How to Win Friends and Influence People’’ is really an effective piece of work. We are living in such a world where things matter for us as money, prosperity, luxury, and to be a well-known person not because of our good deeds but because of our status. Here, things are more important than Humans beings. We like to give money to organizations where we can show off what we did, but somebody in our neighborhood is suffering. What kind of life we are spending as we are emotionless? We didn’t care about others we just think about ‘’I’’, ‘’I’’, and ‘’I’’ and that’s the whole story of our life the alphabet ‘’I’’, which refers to us/ourselves which shows the ego inside us.
I learned from this lesson that a small deed of kindness even a word of kindness give you benefit makes you famous and lovable. If you want others to like you, if you want to develop real friendships, if you want to help others at the same time as you help yourself, keep this principle in mind; Become genuinely interested in other people. As we are interested in others when they are interested in us.” A show of interest, as with every other principle of human relations, must be sincere. Being individuals we failed but being a group we will get success. As the famous saying is ‘’Union is strength’’.
As Dale Carnegie mentioned; the example of dog that he is giving nothing to us but love. So, the thing is that be kind to others, give attention to other, give love to others and remember that love and affection not only give benefit to others but to yourself too. You will be known as a person of good deeds. People start loving you. As you become more socialized your networking will be more strong. Let’s talk to others get suggestions get new ideas give them love and I assure that you will never lose because there will be a huge network behind you that never let you go that never let you lose.
I like to share an example from my life where many times I just talk about myself and neglect others and even if somebody else is talking I interrupt her/him, and just start talking about my experiences about my life. Now I realized that how much pain, he/she may felt when I do this. Due to this practice many times they get annoyed with me but I never realized. Everybody have liberty of talking we should listen to others; we should give them respect.