You're welcome. If i can help one ther person lessen the confuson, if not the pain, of nativating marcssostic abuse and these insane relationships, I will be happy. Thank you for reading my paltry offerings. I know words aren't much--but I also know when you're in the middle of it, or the aftermath, they an be a powerful weapon against despair. Hang in there and never give up the fight. Myla