Trying to thread the needle. Its hard to bring some common ground to a discussion, find an angle to address it in such a way that you offend no one. Of course that won’t work! You have a little David Brooks in your voice, looking at the collective versus the individual as a window to LGBT rights. In the long run, however, don’t we have to move to more individual rights? Ultimately, you can’t see Christianity interfering in gay marriage in 100 years, right?