Naledi Lephoto
Sep 8, 2018 · 1 min read

The value in my singleness

I wanna honestly take time to be single. Not single but fucking, or single with complicated friendships, not single coz they don’t want me…. Just single!

I used to pray for this and now that I have it I haven’t really experienced it.

  • I need to discover my value
  • I need to get acquainted with myself
  • Be reintroduced to my mind, heart and spirit

For what feels like forever, being me has always been about someone else or some situation and it needs to stop.

I keep seeing glimpses of the powerful person I am or could be but I allow myself to be distracted by my current….

My current financial status

My current relationship status

My current position at work

My current state of affairs has legit highjacked my current state being!

So, enough of that bullshit… I’m single… I’m not gonna love every minute of it but I’ll love myself through it.

I’m a touch broke but ain’t we all?

My job could be better… fine … and then?

I could be a better mother but so could Beyoncé, so let’s get to the next thing.

Being Me, Naledi .

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