

Comedian, writer @ucbtla. Fitness nut. Voice of things & you hear me on @kcrw. https://nateclark.net
… Sometimes you’ll realize it in time to change; sometimes you’ll learn from your mistake after. But you benefit by continually asking the question of whether your behavior is aligned with who you really want to be.
…sure of something essential that feels important. It’s a very subtle yet dificult position we’re in. I often fear, “oh will correcting this person’s calling me a lesbian make them feel like I am (or would be) ashamed to be one? I don’t want them to feel like THAT!” etc etc. which just goes back to your point about control. We have none. Period. No control of other people’s experience of the world, their own sexuality, or mine. You artice reminds me of this and that’s important. What’s also important and something I have to …