If you continue to “argue” or “vent” or “share your feelings” beyond getting an apology or agreement from your partner, then you are acting like an asshole. And you’re using your partner as a verbal punching bag to “vent” your own insecurities and inability to emotionally self-regulate.
How to fight fair
Kris Gage

Lol, you just described at least two of my past girlfriends. I often found myself asking them point-blank: “Why won’t you take ‘yes’ for an answer?”

Yeah, it’s totally toxic and I left both of them for that very reason.

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