Toxic love. Everybody has a different definition for it as much as there are variety of definitions for love. Everyone are toxic. Toxic in their own way. How do I get into a relationship when I am Toxic already? Oh god! I don’t want to be in a Toxic relationship is what we all end up thinking as soon as we realize about our toxicity. Each and everyone are so called "walking red flags". Some relationships let you grow and some doesn’t. You get into a secure, non toxic relationship when you find a partner with whom you grow. This absolutely doesn’t mean that either of you are not toxic. It’s just that your toxicity fits your partner’s toxicity. And if it doesn’t, you are in a toxic relationship. A relationship that "looks" toxic need not necessarily be toxic. Relationship is like a perfect jigsaw puzzle. Every piece is incomplete and toxic in a perfect way.... you find your perfect match, you complete your picture. But if you try to force fit two incompatible pieces, both gets broken forever and the picture can never be complete. Don’t let somebody else’s judgement ruin your relationship.