It all about importance and options.
I want to quote an example just to clear my title of writing is that take a case of a person who lost in the mid of sahara desert and he didn’t get a single drop of water from last 2 ,3 days and suddenly by chance or by luck he got only one bottle of water. And he also knows that I will need at least 4 days to cross this desert.what he will do, Right now he is very thirsty so he can drink whole bottle of water in one go or spend each and every drop of water wisely and optimally for surviving. in another case there is a river of pure water a person is swimming in the water he will not care about the same drop of water which is very important and useful for that desert fellow.
So what I want to say that the person which have no other bottle(option) care the water in better way than that swimmer guy.
The thing is that when u start attracted towards someone and have some feelings about that person first time in your life ,you start caring,you want to do anything which make her happy.but the issue is that other person rarely understand your felling after sometime they start thinking that your behavior is desperate, irritating and all n no of negative things arises In Her mind for you. Whatever qualities they realty liked you sometime before same qualities become annoying for them and finally if they have better (not actually but yes new person new set of quality taste change ) they left you because now they have options so u have no importance in her life and they start comparing the new set of totally different qualities with you which is totally partial approach.
Suddenly the person who cares too much and if he is also good by heart start thinking what’s my fault why she left me why? why? why? This question answer war is going inside the mind but every time heart wins and they again went towards her and try to talk or want to ask why are you leaving me. And beside giving direct answer they start telling you that you are irritating,bla bla Bla and you because over deppresed.
They will never come back because they have n no of new set of options and you doesn’t matter now for her.
If you want to share your feeling with any one so first thing to know about that person is either she want a person good by heart or just dude who have good physical structure and profile…
Be emotional but not fool.
