Thank you Yiling. For the longest time I have felt like you. I’m a programmer and now doing a PhD in Mathematics — not the easiest thing to tell people. So I put myself out there and started waitressing. It wasn’t easy; still isn’t easy. But I like being around people, experiencing life, if only to learn from them. There have been rewards. Recently, I was told: Do not underestimate your cuteness. For the life of me I didn’t know I had that effect on people.