Massive hugs. I know that doesn’t really make a difference but a virtual hug is all I’ve got.
And this, dear friends, is all that’s wrong with breastfeeding support -or lack of. Perhaps I should say “mainstream support”. When a problem occurs, too often the only answer offered seems to be “what are *you* doing wrong” and the only solution to try harder or, failing that, formula.
The *correct* answer is “what is happening here”, and the solution dependent on that (sometimes, yes, try harder and sometimes formula, but not always). That is true support and that is what we should *all* be fighting for.
Also, I think we may be in the same part of the country.
Also, you appear to be my muse of sorts.