Roger Williams
Jul 30, 2017 · 1 min read

Better question — what makes you think you’re so worth dating that a man can go through all the time and expense to get you off your ass? Or doing all of that in triplicate in the hope that one of three women we would pursue will actually stick? And, what are you doing to improve your desirability to men? Going to finishing school? Learning the domestic arts? Improving your income? Improving your interpersonal skills?

These are things I haven’t known any of my female friends to do in, like, 30 years. The women a man in his thirties or forties is bound to meet has spent her whole life hearing how magical and special is. She may be insecure, but it’s not for lack of male suitors. It’s just that — darnit! — she’s so special, she can’t commit to some low-rent jamoke.

And that’s fair enough. But this logic cuts both ways. So before presuming there’s something wrong with men, start by asking yourself if there could — just possibly — be something wrong with the female side of the dating pool.

    Roger Williams

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