Thank you Jules, I appreciate your thoughtful reply. I am also terrified when I think of anything happening to my beloved. I think about that stuff a lot. My husband thinks I’m morbid and dark. I think it’s just an occupational hazard. (Oncology nurse). I wish there had been women like you in the Junior League. From what I’ve observed, I think we’d get on well. I could make those cheese scones any time. And yes, dogs (and cats) don’t live near long enough to suit me.