Agreed! My definition for what it means to be a man has changed over the years too. We have a men’s group out here in San Diego, and this is a very common topic. My personal definition is a bit simplistic, but it has been working for me: A real man take good care of his emotions and respond to them in a way that leads to well-being for himself and those around him. I think this requires all the pillars you mentioned ☺ Keep paving the path with your heart wide open man, well done sir!