How can you be in control of EVERYTHING though? For instance, my car up & died on me, and can't be fixed, I don't have the money for a new one & I'm at a loss of what to do now…how will I get to work, dr's appts, etc…? I feel very OUT of control of the situation….so I'm not so sure I can believe in this way of thinking…sometimes shit just happens & it's nobody's fault :/