Nilofar Malik
Jul 28, 2017 · 3 min read

“Do This And You’ll Be Welcome Anywhere”

I read this chapter thoroughly and get many logical thoughts by Dale Carnegie to the human behavior. One thing is more interesting for me which I would like to share with you all as “ You can make more friends in two months by becoming genuinely interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.” Yes we can make more and more good friends by showing that we are interested about them instead of they should interesting in us. Many thing might be good and positive if our behavior and way of talking is polite towards others.

The second thing which is more interesting for me in this book is “People are not interested in you. They are not interested in me. They are interested in themselves–morning, noon and after dinner”. This is also a mind blowing quote. Really People are not interested us at all, They always remain with us if we show interest towards them either they will be limited. So we did not show more attitude to them who’s really cares about us and interested about us.

The third thing which I would like to share with you all is that we should gave priority to our closed one. Make their dignity, pay respect and prefer them in result of you will surely get some sincere friends as some one said that “ When you see a group photograph, you look for yourself first. If we try to impress people and them interested in us, we will never make many real, sincere friends”. So don’t try to impress other through fake personality. The thoughtful research by Dale Carnegie helps me to better understanding of human behavior. This research surely make me most liking personality in my society, family and in friends circle. Once you have better judgement mind setup and sense of observation you can make more sincere and good friends around.

My friends and colleagues interview’s Feedback.

I have many sincere and loyal friends around.Most of them are more mind liking friends and having better understanding bitween us. I contact my 3 friends and one teacher which are belongs to me last 4 years. I ask them these questions as “ how are you, what are you working on these days, how is your family, what did you do this past weekend, any plans for next weekend, what are your goals for this year, how is the year going so far, what challenges are you facing these days, what are you planning to do after graduation.”

My friends which are recently completed their graduation having some frostiness in their behavior and mind. They are little bit worry about their future. They also feel lose confidence cause of rejection from some software house or company.Their future plane obviously to get a well paid job. But due to high competition they lose hope some times. As computer science students their goal for this year is to getting internship in some software or company so that they get some skills about their field. One of those apply for MS in different university and preparing his upcoming tests as required for MS admission.

When these questions ask to my teacher who newly appointed in university after completion her MS from NUST university, She told me that she is really enjoy teaching but there are some problems as to preparing lectures and answering the toughest questions by students. Her future goal is to done Ph.D from Europe and after that she will continue her teaching as a Ph.D professor in a university.These views by my friends and one teachers.