Have you ever watched a band play? Have you ever spent time with people from any kind of band?
They are all different flavours of people. As varied as you can have sometimes. But in that ephemeral moment that they perform in, they play as one heartbeat. One thread in the entire fabric of the universe. The most beautiful melding of minds.
Ultimately they achieve this through immense practice. Hours upon hours spent in pursuit of that elusive thread amongst sheer number of ways things can go. We need to perceive these moments in our own lives and relationships. Only through many failures and mind bending practice can we hope to achieve that true meld. All the discord that we see in our day-to-day lives stem from this frail attempt at this. That fight you had with a brother or a sister. With your parents. With your friends. In all relationships.