…vel and ask scripted questions like “what do you do?” But, multiplexity suggest we do the opposite. Ask probing questions about the other person. Ask what they’re deeply passionate about. Ask where they grew up. Ask what excites them the most right now. Ask them their favorite superhero (you can learn a lot about people by asking them who their favorite superhero is and why). Ask questions that are likely to uncover shared interests, experiences, or connections.