…ze. Love will happen again. And if you wait patiently enough, it will happen with the right person. But for that relationship, one has to come out of the one where there is no hope. And spotting the obsession in your love is the first step. Because once you do that, you’ll be able to move on in life.
But the difference between obsession and true love is that in the latter you are able to let go. In true love, in spite of whatever you are feeling, however painful your sufferings are, you are able to find solace in the happiness of the other person. And this happiness, one of the ultimate act of sacrifice, offset the grief of not being with that person. You bask in this warmth, this satisfaction of seeing them happy and content. And in it lies the source of your happiness.