“Make it a great day,” my friend Kristen’s voicemail says.
Notice, not “Have a great day,” but “Make it a great day.”
Some days, we may effortlessly have great days, but her take on it is that we can do everything in our power to make it a great day. Over time, I’ve learned to agree with this sentiment.
Granted, it’s not always easy, especially with all the new Covid-19 updates being thrown at us 24/7:
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— For Mental Health Monday, we talked about the importance of practicing self-care (even in unexpected moments, like unclogging a shower drain).
— On Travel Tuesday, we took a trip to a local park in Prague —…
For the first time in a long time, dating is the last thing I want to do these days.
Pre-pandemic, I dated more often than not, so when quarantining became the new norm, I thought I’d be the person juggling multiple Zoom dates per week and was excited by the prospect. But a series of dating misses quickly dissuaded me from even having virtual dates: a guy acquaintance wanted to “have virtual drinks” one weekend, then disappeared; a guy friend — who felt more like a fake boyfriend — ghosted; and a dating app guy who said he was fine…
Self-care comes in all shapes and sizes — and I never expected it to come out of unclogging my shower drain. And, especially these days, we have to take all the self-care we can get.
When people say they’re bored in quarantine, I always wonder how: Despite being severely underemployed (after having lost most of my writing jobs due to the pandemic), I still feel I don’t get enough things done each day. I mean, just yesterday alone, I wanted to write more, work on some passion projects, update my online writing portfolio, the list goes on and on …
While some people say that feeling jealous about a friend’s success is common, it can also be detrimental, depending on how you act toward each other. Yes, some friendly competition can be healthy, but I think it depends on the people involved.
Let’s say you and a friend both apply for the same scholarship. You both really need it — tuition for this grad school program is expensive — and scholarships are being given out to several applicants. You get it; your friend doesn’t. Or vice-versa.
If you were the one to not get it, wouldn’t you still be happy…
A “free” trial can often cost much, much more if you forget you signed up for it. But there are ways to not fall victim to paying the price.
After all, it happens to the best of us: We see an online class, membership, or streaming service that we have to have — or at least try out for “free” for 30 days. Soon, it slips our mind; before we know it, that “free” trial ends up costing us hundreds of dollars.
But those days are gone. If you implement the three strategies below, you can start saving money right…
If we don’t have hope, what do we have?
Traveling used to be my life. For the past 3+ years, I’ve been a digital nomad: I lived out of a suitcase and country-hopped around Europe every 1–3 months. I’d walk up ancient stone steps of castles in Sintra, Portugal one moment and swim in Dubrovnik, Croatia’s perfect-blue Adriatic Sea the next. Of course, not anymore.
With traveling at a standstill due to the pandemic, we need to take what we can get — safely, of course. …
Hidden Baggage aims to be a publication all about things we may keep, yep, hidden in our lives … at least till now. I mean, like it or not, we all have baggage, and we hide some pieces of it, so to speak, better than other pieces.
Taking care of our anxiety and mental health can be challenging … and when you throw a pandemic into the mix, even more so.
Go to the grocery store?
Nah, I can eat rice and pasta the rest of the week … or month … or year …
Meet a friend for a nice socially distanced walk?
Nah, a mask-less stranger may breathe on me (quickly making the walk not-so-nice).
Get up early and do a Zoom workout?
Nah, I’d rather stay in bed. (Possibly forever.)
Anxiety can overcome us when we least expect it, especially these days. Things we…
“Be kind to yourself,” my late grandma used to always say, advocating self-care before it was a mainstream concept.
In retrospect, I understand now she was presciently wise.
Like many people these days, I dread having to leave the house for essential errands, whether it’s a trip to the grocery store or doctor for a lingering mystery pain I’ve been having.
What if someone’s not wearing a mask?
What if they cough or sneeze?
What if their cigarette smoke blows my way and they have the virus?