Focus on Being Interested, not Interesting
To love and to be loved” is a basic human instinct. Everybody wants to be attracted or loved by others, undoubtedly when we show interest in people during a conversation they show affection towards us.

When I was reading the chapter of book assigned in the course I was pleased to know that to make a lot of loving friends in a short time is not a difficult task as before it is really a difficult task for me. After reading this I decided to take interest in the companies I also decided to take interest in people I want to be friend with them so that I can be more social. After reading this I have learned many useful ideas or thoughts and by the grace of Almighty Allah I will win people’s hearts by talking about their interests, achievements, goals, happy moments and also asking them about their health and routines. Moreover, the take away from that chapter were:
· On phone calls as well, show interest in the person you are talking with by asking about him\her it will increase your respect in his \her heart.
· Whenever I’ll meet someone I’ll talk about that person more than talking about me i.e. inquiring about his health and daily routines with showing kindness if he has a tough routine.
· It will be great if I ask people about their achievements and objectives.
· I think if someone has negative impression about me than I can change it by showing interest in him i.e. by talking about him.
· When you show interest in others they will like to meet you again and again and surely they will glad to help you when you need them.

Really a good quote.
The experience of implementing the concept of being interested was awesome for me as I started my internship at FatimaFert limited two weeks ago. Now, it was a total new place for me and everybody is too busy in his routines that no none even has a time to cast a glance at you and it’s really a big challenge for me to have long friendly conversation with them but I accepted the challenge and start asking questions about them. Like I ask from my shift in charge about his studies, interests, and basic tough routine and how he handles so many employees, secrets behind success etc.
Believe it or not we talked for almost 30 min he was so happy with the discussion that he forced me to have tea with him and then he was so kind to me that he himself taught me the work they are doing in the company he ordered the workers to give me all the required information. After this I applied the same principle while talking with two other engineers and as a result we become friends, helping each other talking about them whenever free.
The main lessons I learned during the implementation of the concept “being interested” were:
· People will show affection if you show some interest in them
· When you show interest in others they will start talking to you and they will love spending time with you.
· If someone wants affection of others he must start showing curiosity about them.
· Number of fights and misunderstanding will lessen if you start showing interest in your siblings.
