Sadly, some impoverished family in western Pennsylvania put their concerns over yours. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Grow up. People everywhere have different needs and we all make the choices we think are right, and more often than not it hurts somebody. Why should millions of people bend their lives to appease your emotional needs? You have minor fame and all the rights in the world when others have nothing, don’t look down on 59 million people. Thanks.
Also your daughter should grow up knowing strength through independence, and that no one ever owes her an apology for anything, and that she should be able to live a happy and healthy life without emotional bandaids.